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The Cost of Procrastination in Your Closet

Recently I received a blog post from a time-management expert about procrastination. It had me thinking about how that same topic applies to your closet, and that what’s in your closet influences your personal and professional image. And that image, in turn, influences your relationships both personal and professionally.

We communicate details of what others can expect from us by how we put ourselves together each day—and what we can expect of ourselves. Are you deliberate with your image or haphazard? I often hear, “As soon as I get through this big project at work, I’ll invest in my image.” Another popular procrastination phrase is, “As soon as I hit my goal weight, I’ll work on it.”

Whatever your personal reason is for procrastinating on improving your image, I’d like to share what some of the costs could be in your life and career. Why the closet? That is where it all begins. We all begin our day in the closet. How do I know this? No one is walking around naked, so at some point in your morning routine you walk into or reach into a closet or dresser to get your clothes.

Consider the cost of procrastination

Missed opportunities: If you are not dressing for the next job or the next client, you can and will be overlooked.

Loss of confidence: I’ve been told many times some version of this: “I just didn’t feel comfortable with myself and didn’t apply for that job (or raise my hand or attend that event). I sat in the back and just listened as I was too intimidated by all the others to speak up.”

Life stress: Have you ever turned down an invitation because you didn’t feel you had the right type of clothes to attend an event that wasn’t in your usual experience?

Time waster: Do you change clothes 2-5 times before leaving for the day? You feel you want to change it up, but you’re not sure how or where to begin—so you wear what you’ve worn dozens of times before.

Boredom: Do you procrastinate because you feel stuck in a rut, bored with the all-black look, and feeling dated and tired.

Panic: You panic when you’re invited to a gala, wedding, reunion or a work conference. You have no idea where to begin and want to avoid rushing to buy more of the “same old.”

Delayed goals: Studies have found weight loss goals are reached faster when you improve your wardrobe. You lose right away rather than waiting until the goal is reached. Replacing key garments and tailoring as needed will keep you looking great through the process, and will help celebrate and honor yourself.

So how do you know if you are a candidate for elevating your personal and professional image? Ask yourself these questions:

  • Are you ready and willing to improve your current personal image?
  • Are you ready to invest money and time in your wardrobe so you can enjoy more confidence and influence?
  • Are you willing to see yourself from a different perspective?
  • Do you want a promotion if you are an employee, or as a business owner, do you want to reach the next level of your business?
ABOUT TRACI MCBRIDE: TRACI IS THE WARDROBE STYLIST AT TEEMCBEE IMAGE CONSULTING. SUBSCRIBE TO HER NEWSLETTER, SCHEDULE A STYLE STRATEGY CALL, OR REQUEST TEE SPEAKS TO INFUSE YOUR ORGANIZATION WITH PASSION AND STYLE.

Maintain an Interesting Appearance—It Matters

Nothing explains who we are and what we’re all about better than style and fashion. Style matters. Fashion is important. You know it when you see it — someone enters a room, and you say to yourself, “He has style” or “That is someone I want to meet.” It’s an energy that is undeniable, a confidence you can feel.

Not everyone has “it.” Not everyone does “it” authentically. As an example: When buying an outfit off a mannequin, you don’t need to wonder if the pieces go together because someone in the store already put it together — it’s easy. You might find the outfit appealing, but that doesn’t mean it represents the true you. If you are not the same shape or size as the mannequin, it doesn’t fit you the same.

I find many people dress blandly. Men do this often — a polo and khakis with boat shoes, for instance. Bland, typical, doesn’t say much about them. The “safe” dressing for women that I see most often is the all-black default. For example, in the last month I’ve been the guest in several new closets with all black shoes. Black sandals, athletic shoes, pumps, wedges, etc. — all black. Not very interesting, just safe.

Most people play it safe when shopping; they try to work themselves out of that safe, bland box, but without individual guidance and advice specific to their body and lifestyle, they fall short and flat. Many times I can show them how to create a more interesting image without shopping. It all begins in how items are paired or layered.

Just yesterday I worked with a plus-size 60-year-old businesswoman. Using items she already owned, some clothes pins, a belt I had in my tote bag, and a necklace she had shoved away in a drawer and had never worn, I made her look interesting. I focused on teaching her proportion for her 5-foot-3 frame, I created a waist that wasn’t previously visible, I pushed up her sleeves, and I visually sliced her in half with a pop of colorful print worn in just the right place. She looked ageless, modern, approachable, and professional. How perfect — these were the very style words she had written down before I even arrived.

I showed the client why the neckline she had invested heavily into wasn’t flattering in any way. I demonstrated how fabulous her legs were and why she needs to wear more skirts and hem them to her “sweet spot.” Oh, my, we had some “ah-ha” moments. Now she can’t wait to shop with me so we can flesh out her new fresh look.

Helpful tips to show who you are (men):

  • Try on a suit vest and wear with jeans.
  • Add a pocket square that contrasts your tie.
  • Roll your jean hem up a little and don’t wear socks.
  • Buy some denim lace-up shoes.
  • Pop some color other than living in black or navy.

Helpful tips to show who you are (women):

  • If you always wear pants, get into a skirt or dress or try a jumpsuit.
  • Ditch black shoes for the entire summer and wear metallic, nude or color instead.
  • Don’t always wear the same tiny earring and small-scale necklace. Go up a size or try a statement necklace or earrings (but not at the same time).
  • Try something new: a scarf, hat, belt, colored purse.

Each day you choose what you are communicating about yourself. You decide whether you’re bland and playing it safe or confident and interesting. I’m here to advise and support you with your personal image investment. You can avoid frustration, save time, and save your money by engaging with professional support — sooner rather than later!

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