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A Smooth Talk About Undergarments

Questions about undergarments, specifically smoothers, have been coming up from both men and women in a variety of ways, so this month I would like to share my perspective on this subject.

My general approach is to work with what you naturally have and purchase whatever makes you feel good. To me, it’s all about feeling good, confident, and satisfied with your personal image, regardless of your shape, size or age.

Many people tell me they are in the process of toning up or losing weight and don’t want to spend money on garments until they reach their “goal weight” — but this can take months or years. I strongly suggest you will reach your goal faster by dressing your current figure the best you can. Use the “tool” of clothing with its proportion, fabric, colors, and cuts, along with proper foundation garments, to smooth out your shape.

Smoothers are widely popular and have been for women for some years. They are now becoming more mainstream for men, too. People of all sizes wear them for various reasons, like smoothing love handles or jiggly thighs. Smoothers also serve a practical purpose in helping your clothes slide on easily and drape on your body. You can find dozens of celebrities that openly talk about wearing them daily. Kim Kardashian has been photographed with hers peeking out. Hoda and Kathy Lee of the Today show talk about wearing them daily.

Not everyone is a fan of course. I have clients that say, “No way, I’d rather jiggle naturally,” and others that wear them only for special events and revealing dresses. No matter your preference, there is something for you.

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Body Language Speaks Louder Than Words

Q: I’m preparing for my first major presentation in front of our entire company of 200, and I am not sure how to dress. I will be on stage and my image will be projected onto screens — including close-ups.

A: Taking the spotlight is exciting. Remember the percentages: 60 percent is VISUAL, 30 percent is BODY LANGUAGE and only 10 percent is VERBAL. Consider where your audience’s attention will be as you prepare your presentation.

Let me share some tips to keep in mind.

Just as you practice what you will say, practice while wearing the outfit you have chosen for the event. Its best to know how the clothes feel, especially if they are new or you have not worn all the pieces in the same combination before. I actually suggest videotaping yourself in your chosen outfit, shoes included, as you go through your speech. A dress rehearsal will save you from awkward moments.

Being visible is the key to keeping the attention of the audience. Learn ahead of time what your surroundings look like, including the background color of the room. This will help you make the best choices. Consider every angle of your appearance. If you’re a woman, be mindful of cleavage as well as the length of your skirt or dress. If you are on a stage, you won’t want to be giving a “special show” to the front row. Be aware of what angles the cameras will be shooting from — up high, level with you or from below. You wouldn’t want a camera to record you from above at such an angle that a normally modest neckline is showing too much. Keep it simple but show your shape. Avoid bulky fabrics like sweaters and complicated designs, as they might not present well for a larger audience.

Wear your POWER COLOR! Your energy will be at its best, and others will respond to your energy even if they are not interested in your words. You want to attract their attention and keep it throughout the presentation. Wear neutrals, rich jewel tones or brights.

Avoid all black; it will make you invisible. You won’t stand out because (as you will undoubtedly notice) most of the audience will be wearing black. Strong contrast is better than going too subtle, but limit yourself to two or three colors to avoid looking busy. Try splashes of bold prints that are easily recognizable, such as leopard, stripes or polka dots. You don’t want anyone spending time trying to figure out if it’s a panda or a tiger on your tie or scarf!

Wear flattering, comfortable shoes so you can easily navigate on stage and any stairs. Yes, a shoe can be both flattering and comfortable! Remember, you are commanding the room and are the authority, so a longer and leaner look communicates just that. Ladies, 2-inch to 3-inch heels are good. Please avoid stilettos, as they are never the right choice for professional meetings, and we don’t want the audience to be distracted from your message while watching you teeter on the stage. On the other hand, avoid clunky heavy shoes; this applies to both men and women. Men, avoid wearing the weekend Docker shoes with the thick sole. Go for a sleeker dress shoe in leather.

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